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The older I get,
the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it's the quiet solitude
that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it's the unbounded
joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few
hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the kitchen with a steaming
cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other.
What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those
lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me
tell you about it.
I turned the volume up on my radio in order to listen to a Saturday
morning talk show. I heard an older sounding chap with a golden
voice. You know the kind, he sounded like he should be in the
broadcasting business himself. He was talking about "a
thousand marbles" to someone named "Tom."
I was intrigued and sat
down to listen to what he had to say. "Well, Tom, it sure
sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm sure they pay you well
but it's a shame you have to be away from home and your family so
much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or
seventy hours a week to
make ends meet. Too bad you missed your daughter's dance
recital."
He continued, "Let me tell you something Tom, something that
has helped me keep a good perspective on my own priorities."
And that's when he began to explain his theory of a "thousand
marbles."
"You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The
average person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live
more and some live less, but on average, folks live about
seventy-five years."
"Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900,
which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in
their entire lifetime. Now stick with me Tom, I'm getting to the
important part." "It took me until I was fifty-five years
old to think about all this in any detail," he went on,
"and by that time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred
Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I lived to be
seventy-five, I
only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy." "So I
went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended
up having to visit three toy stores to round-up 1000 marbles.
I took them home and put them inside of a large, clear plastic
container right here in my workshop next to the radio.
Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it
away."
"I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more
on the really important things in life. There is nothing like
watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your
priorities straight."
"Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you
and take my lovely wife out for breakfast.
This morning, I took the very last marble out of the container. I
figure if I make it until next Saturday then I have been given a
little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more
time."
"It was nice to talk to you Tom, I hope you spend more time
with your loved ones, and I hope to meet you again someday.
Have a good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop when he finished. Even the
show's moderator didn't have anything to say for a few moments.
I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned to do
some work that morning, and then go to the gym. Instead, I
went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. "C'mon honey,
I'm taking you and the kids to breakfast."
"What brought this on?" she asked with a smile.
"Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long time since we spent
a Saturday together with the kids. Hey, can we stop at a toy
store while we're out? I need to buy some marbles." |
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